May 3, 2025
Think storytelling is complicated? It doesn’t have to be.
In fact, you can become a better storyteller starting today—by changing how you answer one simple question: “How are you?”
We ask and answer that question daily, often without thinking. Most people say, “I’m good,” or “Not bad, how about you?” And while there’s nothing wrong with that, it’s a wasted chance to connect.
Here’s the secret: Every time someone asks how you are, treat it as an opportunity to tell a tiny story.
Skip the epic tales. You don’t need drama. Instead, share something real and small. Like the time you got nervous before a meeting. Or the moment you realized your new hobby is harder than it looks. These are the moments that make you relatable and human.
“I’m good, but I got a bit nervous this morning—I was interviewing someone I admire, and when he popped up on screen, I suddenly felt out of my league. My brain just spiraled.”
That’s it. Not polished. Not perfect. Just real.
No one’s asking for a TED Talk. Aim for 30 to 60 seconds, max. A brief story keeps the conversation light, fun, and flowing. You’re giving a glimpse, not a deep dive.
End with a question that encourages others to open up.
If you shared a travel story, ask, “What’s been your most fun trip this year?”
If you mentioned family time, ask, “When was the last time you had a weekend like that?”
The goal isn’t just to tell stories. It’s to create space for stories.
Start Small, Grow Fast
If you do this daily, you’ll build storytelling skills fast. You’ll stop freezing up when it’s your turn to talk. And soon, you’ll find that storytelling feels natural—even fun.
So next time someone asks, How are you?—don’t waste it. Tell a story.
And if you want your stories to hit harder, dodge these common mistakes that kill their impact.
Enjoy.
P.S. Want to become a stronger communicator?
Here are two ways I can support you:
👉 Want to tell more engaging stories? Join our next Storytelling Workshop.
👉 Want to speak with confidence and clarity? Check out our Communication Skills Training.
Both are fun, practical, and designed to help you grow fast.
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